When a crisis hits, I want to help. I believe we all do. Our school parents’ association has set up a hub to support school families who may need help right now. Our parish council is setting up a community support network. NextDoor and our street’s awesome WhatsApp group are platforms for offering a hand. The council is organising neighbourhood support as well.

We all want to help!

Meanwhile, I was truly humbled (and, well, put in my place if I’m honest – but in a good way) when I read the list of Key Workers this morning.

How can I help?

Is it going to the grocery story or pharmacy to shop for those who can’t (but let’s be honest again: I hate shopping on a good day & being “medium-risk” I’m not totally sure that’s a great idea)? Is it delivering supplies to those who need it? Packing bags and boxes? Organising the supporter teams? This morning Zoe Williams pointed out (amongst many other valuable nuggets) that one of the best ways to care for our own wellbeing through this stressful time is to care for others. But How?

A few days ago, I was observing a master coach in a skills demonstration. The coaching topic was to do with making a choice about different ways to help in this crisis. He suggested the client put aside “how” and asked:

What are you best at?

It was like the yellow brick road emerged out of the fog. I’m best at coaching. I’m best at creating a supportive space to challenge others to clarify their priorities, structure their thinking, solve problems and take action to create new opportunities in uncertain times. That is the best way I can help our working parents and our society stay well and move ahead through this crisis. Today I’ll be trying to figure out how I can give that generously. I’ve already offered that no-fee as my way to help through the parent hub. I just saw Foundry Fitness in Twickenham is offering ‘karma pricing’ and I love that idea too. More on “How” later.

What are you best at?